Adults Yarns

We got married seven years ago and the marriage for most of those seven years was very good, but after our plans to have children failed and as David got more heavily involved with his work, we found ourselves moving apart in a number of ways. His job also involved working late into the evenings many weeks and I found that quite lonely. It didn’t really leave much room for me and my needs and so, feeling shut out and needing company, I turned to the london dating scene to provide something else for me. After seven years, I have to confess that I was a bit rusty, but still attractive enough, I felt, so although it had been a long time since I had last been out in London dating and I wasn’t too sure of the best way of going about that, I reckoned that there would be plenty of ideas on the internet and I have always found Google a real boon in such situations.

I am sure that it must be a lot easier for women and I there were plenty of online London dating sites that I could actively join and use without parting with lots of serious money. I am blonde with a good figure and photograph well, I think, and writing up my personal details and what I was looking for was easy enough too. I was really only after sex and companionship. My marriage still existed, but wasn’t really giving me any of that - not to satisfactory levels, anyway.

It is not difficult to guess that there are always plenty of guys are just really interested in simple no strings attached dating and I wasn’t surprised to find that I was soon able to meet up with several very soon after joining and putting my details up. I can’t pretend to any particular strategy, apart from not trying to sound like a hooker. I just sat and waited and the messages came flooding in. It was very satisfying.

There really were a lot of replies, so I needed a strategy to weed them out somehow. I discounted the clumsy badly written ones and the ones which seemed to be from lads just after a quickie, as well. I knew that I needed a man who had the maturity to handle the kind of relationship. I was only interested in a kiss and a hug on lonely evenings, not a complicated love affair and I needed someone with discretion and understanding.

My husband was completely unaware of all this and I wasn’t really sure how he would react if he found out, but I didn’t want that kind of complication arising. Despite everything, I didn’t feel that I wanted to give up completely on the marriage and I was still hoping that we might be able to bring it into touch and turn it around.

I found a really nice and adorable guy who lived quite close and had found himself in a very similar situation to me and had turned to London dating as a means to make contact and provide what was missing from his relationship. As it was, we both found a lot of soft comfort and moral support from each other and, although the sex was good, finding a friend that we could both take comfort in was even more important. There have been many events since which have made us most grateful for each other.